The Innocent Text That Could Cost You Everything: How Pig Butchering Scams Start

Pig Butchering Text

Ah, the innocent-looking text message. A simple “How are you doing lately?” from an unknown number. It seems friendly, casual, and harmless, right? Wrong. This is exactly how Pig Butchering scams start, and it’s something you NEED to be aware of.

What Is a Pig Butchering Scam?

Let’s break it down. The term “pig butchering” refers to scammers “fattening up” their victims before going in for the kill. They groom you over time, building trust and emotional connection. Then, they use that relationship to con you out of your money—usually through fake investment schemes like cryptocurrency.

The name might sound bizarre, but trust me, there’s nothing funny about it. Victims of these scams have lost hundreds of thousands of dollars. Some have even been scammed out of their entire life savings.

Step 1: The Hook

It always starts with something small, like the text in the screenshot you see above:

“No contact for a long time. How are you doing lately?”

Doesn’t seem like much, right? The whole point of this first step is to get you to respond. It’s vague enough to make you wonder, “Is this someone I know?” You might even feel a little guilty for not remembering them. And that’s the trap.

🚨 Pro Tip: If you get a random message like this from an unknown number, STOP. Do not reply. Take a moment to think critically.

Step 2: Building Trust

Once you respond, the scammer will pretend to be an old friend, acquaintance, or even a wrong number. They’ll quickly shift the conversation to make it feel personal. They might say something like:

“Oh, I’m so sorry! I thought this was my friend from a networking event. But you seem really nice—let’s chat anyway.”

They’ll continue to engage with you, slowly turning the conversation into something more friendly or intimate. Their goal? To establish trust.

Step 3: The Big Pitch

After weeks (or even months) of friendly chit-chat, the scammer will pivot. They’ll start talking about a “great investment opportunity” that they’ve been profiting from. They might even show you fake screenshots of massive returns on their supposed crypto investments.

“I’ve been doing this trading for a few months now, and it’s totally changed my life. You should try it too!”

And here’s where they bleed you dry. Once you transfer your money to their platform (which is often fake), it’s gone. The scammer disappears, and so does your cash.

How to Protect Yourself

  1. Be Skeptical of Unknown Numbers: If someone texts you out of the blue claiming to know you, don’t engage. Block the number immediately.
  2. Don’t Overshare: Scammers thrive on the personal details you provide. The less they know, the better.
  3. Verify First: If you think it might be someone you know, call them directly or check through other means. Don’t rely on the text alone.
  4. Never Send Money or Personal Info: Especially to someone you’ve only met online or over text. If it sounds too good to be true, it is.
  5. Educate Others: Share this article with friends and family—especially elderly relatives, who are often prime targets for these scams.

Why Does This Matter?

These scams are devastating. They don’t just steal money—they destroy trust and leave victims feeling violated and ashamed. But the more you know, the better equipped you’ll be to recognize the warning signs and shut it down before it starts.

So, the next time you get a random text like this, don’t let curiosity get the best of you. Block it. Report it. And move on.

Your wallet (and your peace of mind) will thank you.

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